Okay, you can say I am all kinds of mean, but there is no reason for this child to be out in public looking un-kept. This is a trend when you have White mothers raising bi-racial babies. If you are going to have children that are mixed, you cannot afford to remain aloof about racial differences; you need to learn to deal with their hair. I think what pisses me off, is the knowledge that both she and Seal have the money to get the child's hair taken care of properly. Note: I have never seen one of Will Smith's children looking like a hot mess. So, yes, yell all you want, but the child need an introduction to a brush or at the very least a finger comb out with a good conditioner.