I doubt that my experiences with pregnancy were unique. Pregnancy is a time when women are expected to fixate on becoming mothers and reject all other facets of their identity. Though women are able to have sex safely well into their pregnancies, for many people, the idea is somehow repellent. Good mommy's aren't expected to have carnal desires, even though that is exactly how women become pregnant in the first place. Sexuality is expected to become dormant and any act that publicly indicates that it is still an important part of our identity is quickly frowned upon. With WOC this experience can be heightened, as we are often constructed as irresponsible breeders, who are filling the world with undesirable offspring.
It is assumed by many that pregnancy in a woman's life is a time when society is less apt to discipline or attack, but that is a patent falsehood. Just as with every other aspect of a woman's life, this is something we need to redefine for the sake of women's empowerment. A child within our womb does not suddenly justify intrusion, or the empower others with the ability to dictate how we are supposed to feel about our bodies or perform femininity/ motherhood. When I came across the following images taken of model Kim Bella by photographer Felix Natal Jr., what I saw was a challenge to the idea that one must see pregnancy as a time for celibacy and self denial.
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"I agree there is nothing cute about these photos in fact their degrading to me – she’s looks very tacky!"
"This is not wholesome. I understand wanting to have a memento of your special time but this is low rent to say the least. Show the belly but put some pants on or at least buy more expensive underwear, GOD I know exactly where you bought those".
"Wow it amazes me that pregnancy isnt even off limit for these hoes and I hate to generalize, but hoes/porn stars/video ‘models’/and strippers should at least take a hocation or go on hoternity leave until the baby is born! I mean come on IS NOTHING SACRED ANYMORE??"